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Acknowledging Emotions in Job Change & Recruiting

Carol Metzner • January 7, 2022

Recently a LinkedIn connection commented on a posting that I put emotion in my recruiting. It implied that was not a good quality and one should focus on facts when talking to candidates. Job change, whether by choice or force, brings with it a myriad of emotions. When talking with potential candidates, I think it is critical to understand the “feelings” that accompany the logical factors that go into a decision to explore new opportunities.

Based on 35 years of my market specialty of executive search in the A/E sector, the majority of clients and candidates working with me are self-described logical thinking types. Recently, I read a description of logical thinking decision makers as one in which “skills require and involve a progressive analysis, for example, by weighing all available options, using facts and figures, and making important decisions based on the pros and cons. They do not take into account the elements of feelings and emotions.” Using logical thinking only and ignoring the strong emotions that are involved in leaving one employer for a next is a recipe for disaster.


Many of us spend more hours working then not. Even with Covid-19, our computers and phones keep us connected to colleagues and bosses. Board of Directors, leadership teams and project groups still meet. We foster connections that feel like an extension of our families. Leaving an employer means disappointing friends, colleagues, bosses and clients. Even when leaving for an outstanding career opportunity, it is common to experience some sense of loss. Not acknowledging the feelings involved will also lead candidates to be shocked when counter offers are made, which combine money and guilt. If one is fired from their job, then a host of rational and irrational emotions come up to the surface. Again, no acknowledgement will lead a candidate to possibly accept a bad job offer.



So, job change is rarely made without emotion. Utilizing logic and understanding the emotions with job change and decision-making can help you to make a solid, rational decision. Choosing a recruiter who understands both, can help you to navigate the less than smooth waters and get you successfully to your destination.


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Embracing Ethical Recruiting: A 2025 Refresher on Integrity & Relationships

By Carol Metzner • January 24, 2025
Being ethical is critical in executive recruitment. An ethical executive recruiter recognizes that their role goes beyond merely filling a position; it is about building meaningful relationships and ensuring the match between candidate and company is genuine and beneficial. This approach is not just a professional obligation but a moral one. Building Relationships: A skilled executive recruiter understands the importance of nurturing relationships with clients and candidates. These relationships are rooted in trust, transparency, and mutual respect. By understanding both parties' needs, values, and aspirations, the recruiter can make informed decisions that lead to successful matches. Focus on Fit: The right match goes beyond qualifications and experience and involves cultural fit and values alignment. Ethical recruiters take the time to grasp the organization's culture and the candidate's personality. They strive to ensure the new hire will thrive in the company's environment and contribute positively to its goals. Integrity and Honesty: Principled recruiters uphold integrity throughout the recruitment process. They provide honest feedback, manage expectations, and avoid practices that could mislead or exploit either party. This includes being transparent about potential challenges and ensuring candidates are fully informed about the roles they are being considered for. Long-Term Success: An ethical recruiter prioritizes long-term success for both the candidate and the company. This means valuing quality over quantity and making placements likely to endure. An ethical match leads to higher job satisfaction, reduced turnover, and a stronger, more cohesive organization. In conclusion, ethical executive recruiters are about much more than filling positions. They foster relationships, ensure a good cultural fit, maintain integrity, and aim for long-term success. By adhering to these principles, recruiters fulfill their professional responsibilities and contribute to the overall well-being of the companies and candidates they serve.

Embrace the Challenge: Take That New Leadership Opportunity!

By Carol Metzner • November 19, 2024
Taking on a new executive role is more than just a career transition—it’s an adventure filled with potential and personal growth. Here’s why you should embrace this opportunity:  1. Growth and Development: A new role challenges you to stretch your capabilities and develop new skills. It’s an invaluable opportunity to broaden your horizons and enhance your leadership toolkit. 2. Fresh Perspectives: A new position brings fresh insights and viewpoints. It allows you to step out of your comfort zone and see the industry differently, fostering innovation and creativity. 3. Expanding Your Network: Embracing a new opportunity connects you with new professionals and mentors. These relationships can offer support, inspiration, and new avenues for collaboration. 4. Driving Impact: You can drive significant change in an executive role. This is your opportunity to implement strategic initiatives and make a lasting impact on the organization. 5. Personal Fulfillment: There is immense satisfaction in taking on new challenges and overcoming them. It boosts your confidence and brings a profoundly fulfilling sense of achievement. Don’t hesitate. Embrace the challenge, take that new executive role, and unlock your potential. The next chapter of your career is waiting—make it count! Let’s discuss this further. Feel free to drop me an update at carol@themetznergroup.com. #Leadership #ExecutiveOpportunities #TakeTheLeap #CivilEngineeringExecutiveSearch Carol A. Metzner The Metzner Group, LLC www.themetznergroup.com
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